Selecting a wedding band is an exciting milestone in your journey to saying “I do.” With countless of styles and options, the choice can feel overwhelming. A key consideration is how well the wedding band complements your engagement ring.
One of our readers asked us about a matching wedding band for his fiance’s engagement ring. He had two options and was unsure which one was the right choice.
Here’s the reader’s original email:
I asked for advice from you a little over a year ago for an engagement ring and it was valuable info. I have another and last question for you.
Looking for a wedding band and I’m torn between these two. The James Allen band is a direct match to the band on my fiances ring from James Allen, but the Blue Nile one also looks (to me) to be the same exact style?
Fiance’s engagement ring: https://www.jamesallen.com/engagement-rings/pave/platinum-twist-pave-ze102-by-danhov-designer-engagement-ring-item-16573?a_aid=dmnd1357
James Allen matching wedding band: https://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-diamond/platinum-flush-fit-pave-wedding-ring-item-56282?a_aid=dmnd1357
Blue Nile wedding band: https://www.jamesallen.com/wedding-rings/womens-diamond/platinum-thin-pave-set-diamond-wedding-ring-item-69?a_aid=dmnd1357
As you can see there is a price range difference and wanted to know if one was worth it over the other? The James Allen one has a different color grade when compared to the Blue Nile one. Which one do you think would be best to match her current ring? Thanks!
After a long discussion, the reader went with the band from James Allen as the diamonds’ size was much closer to the diaonds in the engagement ring and the style of the band was very similar.
There are two popular approaches people take when choosing wedding bands. The matching style, where the band mirrors the engagement ring, and a contrast band, which provides a delightful juxtaposition. There is no right or wrong choice here. It all depends on what you (or your partner) like.
This guide will delve into both options, helping you find the perfect pair for your big day.
1. Matching Styles: A Seamless Union
Matching your wedding band to your engagement ring is a timeless and elegant choice. This approach ensures a harmonious look that emphasizes unity and coherence. Here are some popular matching styles to consider:
Classic Elegance: Solitaire and Classic Bands
A solitaire engagement ring paired with a classic wedding band is the symbol of understated elegance. The simplicity of a plain metal band complements the solitaire’s single diamond, allowing its brilliance to take center stage. This combination is ideal for those who appreciate a clean, minimalist aesthetic.
Vintage Charm: Intricate Details
For lovers of vintage-inspired jewelry, a wedding band that mirrors the intricate details of a vintage engagement ring is a perfect match. Whether your ring features milgrain edges, filigree designs, or detailed engravings, a corresponding wedding band will enhance the antique allure. This matching style celebrates the craftsmanship and artistry of bygone eras, creating a cohesive and romantic look.
Here is an example of an elegant vintage engagement ring and its matching wedding band.
Modern Glamour: Pavé and Halo Sets
Modern engagement rings often feature pavé or halo settings, such as this oval cut halo ring from Blue Nile, where smaller diamonds accentuate the center stone. Matching these with a pavé wedding band like this one from Blue Nile amplifies the sparkle, creating a dazzling effect. This style is perfect for those who love a bit of glamour and want their wedding set to shine brightly from every angle.
2. Contrast Bands: A Unique Statement
While matching sets are popular, contrast bands offer a fresh and personalized approach. This method allows you to mix and match styles, metals, and settings to create a look that is uniquely yours. Here are some contrasting combinations that can make a bold statement:
Subtle Sophistication: Pavé Engagement Ring and Solitaire Band
If you have a pavé engagement ring, consider pairing it with a simple solitaire wedding band. The smooth, unadorned band contrasts beautifully with the glittering pavé setting, highlighting the engagement ring’s intricate design. This combination offers a balanced look that is both sophisticated and eye-catching.
Mixed Metals: Embracing Diversity
Combining different metals is a trend that has gained popularity in recent years. If your engagement ring is white gold, consider a rose gold or yellow gold wedding band. This contrast not only adds visual interest but also showcases your willingness to break traditional norms and embrace a modern aesthetic. Mixed metals can be particularly striking when the engagement ring and wedding band have complementary designs.
There is also an option to go for a mixed metal ring that contains two or more metal types to give you a unique appearance.
Texture Play: Smooth vs. Detailed
Another way to create a contrast is by playing with textures. Pair a smooth, polished engagement ring with a wedding band that features texture, such as a hammered or brushed finish. Alternatively, a detailed engagement ring can be paired with a sleek, unadorned band. This juxtaposition highlights the unique characteristics of each ring, creating a dynamic and personalized look.
Choosing the Right Combination
When deciding between matching styles and contrast bands, consider your personal style, lifestyle, and how you want your rings to reflect your relationship. Here are some tips to guide your decision:
- Personal Style: Reflect on your jewelry preferences. Do you gravitate towards classic, vintage, or modern designs? Your wedding set should resonate with your everyday style.
- Lifestyle: Consider your daily activities. If you’re an active person, a simpler band without intricate details may be more practical and durable.
- Symbolism: Think about what your rings represent. Matching sets symbolize unity and tradition, while contrasting bands can signify individuality within the partnership.
Conclusion: Your Unique Love Story
Whether you choose a matching set or a contrasting combination, your wedding bands should tell your unique love story. Each approach offers its charm and beauty, ensuring that your rings will be cherished symbols of your commitment. Take your time exploring different options, and remember that the perfect pair is the one that feels right for you. After all, these rings will be a daily reminder of the love and promises you share.
And if you need any help, send us a message and we’ll be more than happy to guide you to your perfect wedding set.
What we love about them:
- No questions asked returns within 30 days of shipment. James Allen will send you a paid shipping label to return the ring.
- Lifetime Warranty
- Free International Shipping
- Free prong tightening, repolishing, rhodium plating and cleaning every 6 months
- Provide insurance appraisals
- One free resizing within 60 days of purchase
- Free ring inscriptions
- Best-in-class high quality imagery of all diamonds in stock
- 24/7 Customer Service
- Best-in-class packaging
What we love about them:
- No questions asked returns within 30 days of shipment. Blue Nile will send you a paid shipping label to return the ring.
- Lifetime Warranty
- Free Shipping
- Free prong tightening, repolishing, rhodium plating and cleaning every 6 months
- Provide insurance appraisal
- One free resizing within the first year of purchase
- High quality images of about half of their diamonds
- 24/7 Customer Service
- 100% credit towards future upgrades (must be at least double in value)
- Best in class fulfillment
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